恋爱假期

爱丽丝和阿曼达是两个不同类型的熟女，她们各自经历了一段伤心的恋情，于是在圣诞来临之际，决定在网络上互换房子在无人相识的地方度过一个疗伤的假期……

爱丽丝是英国伦敦的一个报社编辑，她稳重、温和、善解人意，卑微地单恋着自己的前男友兼同事。渣渣的前男友或许并没有真正地爱过她，只是把她的温柔，默默的付出当成理所当然的福利，整整三年。每当爱丽丝想忘记他，他就跑出来给她以希望，不停地表明自己需要她，喋喋不休地请她帮忙。可怜的爱丽丝一如我们身边的对爱情软弱的善良女孩，在众人皆知的暗恋中备受煎熬。终于在某一天，前男友当众告知即将与当年劈腿的小三结婚，还点名要求爱丽丝做他们的婚讯报道。

阿曼达是美国洛杉矶的一个电影制片人，她硬朗、泼辣、雷厉风行，在遭遇男友劈腿之后，干脆地将其扫地出门。阿曼达是典型的女强人，用坚强为外壳保护自己，从年少时父母离异开始，再没有掉过一滴眼泪，她靠自己的打拼赢得职场的辉煌，她住豪宅，开豪车，参与一线电影的制作，在电视上星光闪耀。然而，这一切并不能掩盖她在感情上一次次的失败。

互换环境的两人获得了新的生活。当爱丽丝来到Beverly Hills，她被眼前的奢华惊呆了，对，这是好莱坞明星和富豪聚集的地方。一次偶然，善良的她帮助了隔壁的一个孤独老人，并成为了好朋友，没想到老人竟然是获奖无数的好莱坞知名编辑。而后又认识了阿曼达前男友的同事作曲家米尔斯。与两人的交往中，爱丽丝逐步找回了自信，并且爱上了米尔斯。

阿曼达在爱丽丝的英伦小屋中邂逅了她的哥哥格拉汉姆，一个看起来像花花公子的浪漫男人。他们疯狂地迷上了对方，虽然强调只彼此只追求片刻的灿烂，假期过后两人相忘于天涯，然而他们越来越发现对方已在自己的心中情根深种。后来，发现原来格拉汉姆不仅不是浪子，而且是一个很有责任感的鳏夫，独自拉扯着两个女儿。这样的爱恋似乎很难走下去，一个是伦敦的图书编辑闲暇时作超级奶爸，一个是美国星光闪耀的电影制作人。然而，爱情战胜了一切，他们彼此疗伤，决心克服一切困难相守在一起。

于是，这个圣诞节，爱丽丝和米尔斯，阿曼达和格拉汉姆两对情侣，还有格拉汉姆的两个天使般的女儿一起相聚，在英伦小屋中共舞，整个世界沉浸在天伦之乐中……

这是一个幸福的轻喜剧，一个属于熟女的爱情童话。凯特•温丝莱特演技很棒，将爱丽丝这个角色演得非常真实，相信可以引起很多剩女的共鸣——你很优秀，相信自己很快就会被爱神眷顾。卡梅隆•迪亚兹饰演的阿曼达很符合自己的路线，表现得也很出色，乐观、闪耀、有点神经质，笑起来没心没肺。裘德洛依然英俊风度翩翩。影片有着浓浓的小资情调，优美的英伦乡间风情，细腻的感情线，轻松浪漫的基调，无论是独处，还是与好基友，亦或是同恋人一起，都是一个不错的选择。

再见肥仔杰.上次一别还是<金刚>之后.

不是为了他,就凭傻大姐卡没隆地牙次,跟我最讨厌的小生糗的骡,是不足以吸引我去戏院看的.
虽然还有肥温.自从金凯瑞那部失忆症女郎之后，我已经越来越爱肥温拉.绝对是演技跟本色派.
果然她跟肥仔杰在一起，有点感觉怪怪的.她是温馨知性的形象,虽然故意表现地活泼亲切,且手足无措.简直是伦敦版的郑秀文.
这次惊讶地发现傻大姐在<变脸>里那张充满诱惑跟在<哈拉玛利>里阳光灿烂的脸,居然老得~~~~这发现简直跟上次看<偷情>里的大嘴萝卜瓷老了一样,让人叹息.
卡没隆大姐还跟肥温不一样，后者的眼纹好象不太让人注意,但前者就简直是美人迟暮啊.不禁暗自担心,小贾同学看久了会不会有一天审美疲劳啊.不过幸好,身材还是超棒,嘴唇依然是好来物数一数二的性感翘嘴唇.
糗的骡帅哥极尽深情之能事.这次的角色相当讨巧,演有两个小女儿的单身父亲.据说现在美貌单身父亲控绝对是潮流所向,南希大人果然不愧是言情片炮制高手啊.可惜他再怎么好看，也不是我的型.我还是喜欢他演的<兵临城下>里不是靠耍帅的神枪手瓦犀利多些.

相当温馨的题材，配合圣诞气氛,在一个寒冷一个热辣的两地交换.两种圣诞,一样的爱情.
该说说我最心水的肥仔杰了.很可惜,他老人家在此戏中的戏份少得可怜.丑生难道就不能多给点镜头吗?而且也没啥突破性，基本就是在重复自己以前的表演拉. 多少让我有些失望.最喜欢看他神经质地表演,可惜为了不跟主题违背,他居然还演得是个痴心情长贱的老实好男人呢.这还是我们熟悉的<摇滚学校 >里的痞子天才,跟<失恋排行榜>里的神经质店员吗?
所幸,他还是演一个乐人.电影配乐人.在DVD店依然有段还算可以打正分的小亮点.而他模仿的各名片的音乐中，还有<毕业生>的片段,居然老达死顶火夫慢,还轧了一个镜头,实在让人会心一乐.
跟肥温的感情戏,没什么铺垫,简直就是为了凑对而凑对.不过虽然情节设计的有些牵强,但两人的对手戏还是满有看头.部分眼神火花四射.只是死胖子站在温姐身边,实在是太不般配了.黑线~~~~我~~~果然还是在爱情片里鄙视非美型的俗人啊~~~囧rz



最后的结尾稍嫌平淡了些,委实没什么让人印象深刻的高潮~~~论编剧功力绝对没有<偷情>里高干,且也无有那里特别让人动心的背景乐.不能不说是个遗憾.
看爱情轻喜剧(其实也谈不上喜剧拉，只是大团圆好结局吧)的好处是,心里洋溢着一股温情.年轻的女人看了,觉得爱情还是美好的,我还有希望去经历.岁数大的女人看了，觉得我的人生也曾有过那样美丽的时刻,摸摸脸,心里想起过去,亦有回忆的浪漫。尽管那有可能是人为美化的.
因为是下午场.全场只得7位观众.
老老少少的6位女性.我只是在想，那唯一一个嚼着小熊糖的男人,他是为什么来看的呢?

(PS,非得再控诉一下我对SONY公司的鄙视.自从他们购买了哥伦比亚,就几乎在任何旗下的电影中不放过任何一个出现他们产品的机会.上次的 007如此,这次的HOLIDAY又如此.我看到那无处不在的SONY音响,SONY电视就觉得实在是倒胃口.难道他们不知道，在一个欧洲知识分子家里出现那么大一台SONY平面直角,是很可耻的吗?还有,继续大用特用VAIO的笔记本,呕卖糕的，不怕电池再次自焚吗?)

圣诞节的应景之作，猜也猜得到该是怎样的：浪漫（爱情主线）、温馨（一个迟暮老人的复线）、幽默、养眼的帅哥（jude law）和不那么美的美女(diaz)。伦敦和洛杉矶两地，两个情场失意的女人的假期际遇。一个爱的妥协，一个爱的强势，结果却都一样，圣诞前落了单，伤了心，忙着躲起来，自己养伤。假期过完，伤养好，找到Mr Right， 生活还是很美好.
1. kate winslet演了个郑秀文的招牌角色，却不如郑演得活灵活现。游泳游的挺不错。
2. Jack Black不能搞怪要装老实，但是怎么藏也藏不住狡黠的眼神，搞笑的。可惜戏份比较少，人长得不帅就是吃亏。
3. Jude Law是个帅帅单身爸爸，女儿天使一样，还会做缝纫，这么讨巧的角色，自然是无敌了。
4. Diaz还是《哈拉玛丽》里那头轻爽金色短发，就是真的老多了，那一身身冬装很好看，角色还是有点傻大姐的感觉。
5. 那个写剧本的老爷爷（连名字都叫Arthur），对爱情颇有见地，说得话都很有启发性。
6. 以洛杉矶为背景的故事和电影工业有千丝万缕的联系，写剧本的，做trailer的，给电影配乐的，我也想有那个一正面都放得电影的房子。
7. 广告太明显了，sony的广告到处都是。
8. 贺岁嘛，重在掺和。Dustin Hoffman漏了个脸。Edward Burns也演了个配角，看过他和Dustin合作的Confidence，现在只记得他这张像本 阿弗莱克的帅脸了。
9. 虽然肯定不会成为像《真爱至上》那样的经典，还是看的很开心。后面快到结尾，还小感动了。
10. 为了凑10条，台词一句："Iris, in the movies, we have leading ladies and we have the best friend. You, I can tell, are a leading lady but for some reason, you're behaving like the best friend“ 大家好好体会。

一直很喜欢Kate Winslet 一个演技派 非常洒脱自然的女人！
也很喜欢Jude Law 因为他确实太帅了~

喜欢这部电影因为很喜欢它的剧本
所以在这一起share一下 经典的台词

其实开篇那段写的太美了 尤其是Kate来念
I have found almost everything ever written about love...to be true.
Shakespeare said,"Journeys end in lovers meeting."
What an extraordinary thought.
Personally, I have not experienced anything remotely close to that...but I'm more than willing to believe
Shakespeare had.
I suppose I think about love more than anyone really should.
I'm constantly amazed by its sheer power to alter and define our lives.
It was Shakespeare who also said,"Love is blind."
Now, that is something I know to be true.

For some, quite inexplicably...Love fades.
For others...Love is simply lost.
But then, of course,love can also be found.
Even if just for the night.
And then there's another kind of love.
The cruelest kind.
The one that almost kills its victims.
It's called unrequited love.
Of that, I am an expert..
Most love stories are about people who fall in love with each other.
But what about the rest of us?What about our stories?
Those of us who fall in love alone.
We are the victims of the one-sided affair.
We are the cursed of the loved ones.
We are the unloved ones.
The walking wounded.
The handicapped without the advantage of a great parking space.
Yes, you are looking at one such individual.
And I have willingly loved...that man for over three miserable years.
The absolute worst years of my life.
The worst Christmases,the worst birthdays.
New Year's Eves brought in by tears and Valium(安定).
These years I've been in love have been the darkest days of my life...all because I'm cursed by being
in love with a man who does not...and will not love me back.
Oh, God, just the sight of him.
Heart. pounding, throat thickening,absolutely can't swallow.
All the usual symptoms.

Iris约Arthur一起吃晚饭 Arthur说的话是那么的通透
As a matter of fact, he is A huge schmuck.
How did you know?He let you go.
This is not a hard one to figure out.
Iris, in the movies we have leading ladies...and we have the best friend.
You, I can tell, are a leading lady.But for some reason,you're behaving like the best friend.
You're so right.
You're supposed to be the leading lady of your own life, for God's sake.
Arthur, l've been going to a therapist for three years.And she's never explained anything to me that well.

Iris安慰Miles那段对话也十分的睿智经典
I know it's hard to believe people when they say, "l know how you feel."
But I actually know how you feel.
（You see...I was...seeing someone back in London.
We worked for the same newspaper.And then I found out that he was also seeing this other girl, Sarah...from the Circulation Department
on the 19th floor.It turned out that he wasn't in love with me like I thought.）
What l'm trying to say is...I understand feeling as small and as insignificant...as humanly possible.
How it can actually ache in places that you didn't know you had inside you.
It doesn't matter how many new haircuts you get...
or gyms you join...
or how many glasses of chardonnay you drink with girlfriends.
You still go to bed every night going over every detail...and wonder what you did wrong or how you could have misunderstood.
And how in the hell, for that brief moment...you could think that you were that happy?
And sometimes you can even convince yourself...that he'll see the light and show up at your door.
And after all that...however long "all that" may be...you'll go somewhere new.
And you'll meet people who make you feel worthwhile again.
And little pieces of your soul will finally come back.
And all that fuzzy stuff...those years of your life that you wasted...
that will eventually begin to fade.
...

  说实话，一直以为这是个很肥皂的电影，但是因为凯特 温丝莱特，（好吧，我承认是冲着她去的。）多了些高贵和温馨。
  一直把《那段场景记在脑子里。 温丝莱特对那个男人说一切结束了，你再也不会成为我人生的重点了。然后是如此开心地把他推出去，像从牢里解脱般伸出双臂拥抱这个世界。
   一直记着这个场景，因为那种感觉是那样富有神迹，似乎很美好很美好。她的深呼吸，似乎在说这一瞬间我才体会到了自己的美丽，自己的价值是那么宽广，不只是限于这个男人。
   想起林徽因说，生活比爱情更宽广。
   曾经执着过的，曾经为之把自己压得很低很低的，曾经以为这是一生的价值即使受苦亦是光荣的。
   可是，总会有那一刻真相顿悟。原来这个男人根本配不上自己，维持彼此关系的只是自己那一点点小小的不肯澄清的misapprehension,像一点点微弱的火焰，风一吹就会毁灭，然后一切回到黑暗。也许，那一刻，当Jasper说话的时候不小心吹来了一阵风吧。这么美好的自己，我却捧在你面前，任你忽视，只有需要我的时候你会说I need you.
   多美的爱瑞斯，老人说，you,are supposed to be the leader,but for some reason,you make yourself a bestfriend.她美丽，热忱，用心去爱这个世界，包括那个戳戳的根本配不上她的Jasper,“If you are a song,I will just use the good tone."Jack Black这样对她说。
   女人，何苦这样，一日日，一时时，一刻刻重复着，为了不知道珍惜自己的人而把自己压得如此如此之低。"You make me think that's all my fault,'cause I too much love you!"当凯特这样说的时候，那个男人傻傻地看着她，呵，他其实从来没进过她的内心。所以，她可以超开心地说-----oh,it's over!
  深呼吸，你闻到这空气的味道了么？有一种来自更远的吸引，总是带着新鲜，总是有着希望。
   有另一种生活你可以获得的，只要那一刻你悟到了，天地便刹那间宽广了。
   也许是上帝的安排，让你在某一瞬间陷入万劫不复，在另一瞬间让你瞬间开悟，原来事情是这样的，他是这样估量你的价值的，生活是这样的。
   傻过，也就过了。悟到了，伤痛都如财富般发光。
   然后，去做自己该做的事情，那些更宽广的生活，那双你遗失在时空里的干净得令人心颤的眼睛。
  把爱瑞斯躺在沙发上说的话送给大家吧，不深刻，但那是一个用心生活的女人的期许。她总是相信美好的。Always.
  Well,what I'm trying to say is that I understand your feelings as small and insignificant in a human's ever small.And how can you ache when you don't know what's inside you?And it doesn't matter how many hair-cuts you get,at what gym you joint,how many wines you drink with your girlfriends,you still go to bed every night comes every details .You wonder what you did wrong and how you can misunderstand him,and how in that breath moment you could think you were that happy.Sometimes you could even convinced yourself that he will see the light and show up your door.
  And after all that,how ever long of that maybe,you will go somewhere new,and you will meet people someone makes you feel worthwhile again.All pieces of your soul will finally come back.And all that fuzz stuff,those years of your life wasted that will eventually bagan to fade.

part 1 　
IRIS: I have found aImost everything
　　ever written about Iove to be true.
　　我发现所有关于爱情的描述都是真的
　　Shakespeare said, "Journeys end in Iovers meeting."莎士比亚曾说“恋人总在旅程的终点相会”
　　Oh, what an extraordinary thought!
　　真浪漫的想法
　　PersonaIIy, I have not experienced
　　anything remoteIy cIose to that,
　　虽然我从来没有过这种经验
　　but I'm more than wiIIing
　　to beIieve Shakespeare had.
　　但是我相信莎翁有过
　　I suppose I think about Iove
　　more than anyone reaIIy shouId.
　　我对爱情一向比别人想得更多
　　I'm constantIy amazed by its sheer power
　　to aIter and define our Iives.
　　也深切地相信爱情能改变人生
　　It was Shakespeare who aIso said,
　　"Love is bIind."莎士比亚也说：“爱情是盲目的”
　　Now that is something I know to be true.
　　这一点我肯定是真的
　　For some, quite inexpIicabIy, Iove fades.
　　不知道为什么，对某些人来说
　　爱情是渐渐消逝
　　For others, Iove is simpIy Iost.
　　其他人则是完全失去爱情
　　But then, of course, Iove can aIso be found,
　　但是有些人能够轻易找到爱情
　　even if just for the night.
　　就算只是一夜情
　　And then there's another kind of Iove,
　　当然还有另一种爱情
　　the crueIIest kind,
　　最残酷的那一种
　　the one that aImost kiIIs its victims.
　　足以让人痛不欲生
　　It's caIIed unrequited Iove.那就是单恋
　　Of that, I am an expert.我就是这方面的专家
　　Most Iove stories are about peopIe
　　who faII in Iove with each other,
　　爱情故事通常讲的是两个人相爱
　　but what about the rest of us?
　　但是像我们这种人呢？
　　What about our stories,
　　我们的故事很少被提起
　　those of us who faII in Iove aIone?
　　孤独地坠入爱河
　　We are the victims of the one-sided affair.
　　我们是单恋的苦主
　　We are the cursed of the Ioved ones.
　　也是受诅咒的受害者
　　We are the unIoved ones,
　　更是没人疼没人爱的可怜虫
　　the waIking wounded,
　　the handicapped without the advantage
　　of a great parking space.
　　就像找不到停车位的残障人士
　　Yes, you are Iooking at one such individuaI
　　像我这样的一个女子
　　and I have wiIIingIy Ioved that man
　　for over three miserabIe years,
　　我死心塌地单恋那个男人
　　过了三年的痛苦人生
　　the absoIute worst years of my Iife.
　　我这一生最惨痛的日子
　　The worst Christmases, the worst birthdays,
　　耶诞节很难熬、过生日没人陪
　　New Year's Eves brought in by tears and VaIium.
　　除夕只能放声大哭、狂吞镇静剂
　　These years that I've been in Iove have been the darkest days of my Iife,
　　身陷在黑暗的枷锁中
　　aII because I've been cursed by being in Iove with a man
　　因为我无可救药的爱上一个男人
　　who does not and wiII not Iove me back.
　　却没得到相同的回报
　　Oh, God, just the sight of him.
　　我光是看到他
　　Heart pounding, throat thickening,
　　absoIuteIy can't swaIIow.
　　心脏就狂跳、喉咙干到无法吞咽
　　AII the usuaI symptoms.
　　全都是单相思的症状

part 2

    -Why do l always fall for the bad girl?
　　-You didn't know she was a bad girl.
　　我怎么老是爱错人？
　　你不知道她这么糟
　　l knew she wasn't good.
　　我知道她不是好东西
　　Do you have anything a little bit stronger?
　　你有更烈一点的饮料吗？
　　Thank you. Let me rephrase this.
　　谢谢你，我这么说好了
　　Why am l attracted to a person
　　l know isn't good?
　　为什么我老是爱错人？
　　l happen to know the answer to this.
　　Because you're hoping you're wrong,
　　我刚好知道答案
　　因为你祈求上苍是自己弄错了
　　and every time she does something
　　that tells you she's no good, you ignore it,
　　她对你坏，你故意忽视
　　and every time she comes through
　　and surprises you, she wins you over
　　她对你好，你就完全的死心塌地
　　and you lose that argument with yourself
　　that she's not for you.
　　完全没想到其实是她不适合你

part 3

      I understand feeling as small
　　and as insignificant as humanly possible,
　　我了解那种渺小又微不足道的感受
　　and how it can actually ache in places
　　that you didn't know you had inside you,
　　就算遍体鳞伤也要故作坚强
　　and it doesn't matter
　　how many new haircuts you get
　　不管换了几个新发型
　　or gyms you join or how many glasses of
　　chardonnay you drink with your girlfriends,
　　或是去健身或是和姊妹淘喝白酒
　　you still go to bed every night
　　going over every detail,
　　日日夜夜都仍在回想着每个细节
　　and wonder what you did wrong
　　or how you could have misunderstood.
　　纳闷自己到底哪里错了，哪里误解了
　　And how in the hell, for that brief moment,
　　you could think that you were that happy?
　　最后自问怎么会把短暂的欢愉
　　错当成永久的快乐
　　And sometimes you can even
　　convince yourself that he'll see the light
　　有时候会说服自己
　　and show up at your door.
　　他会想清楚回来的
　　(SlGHS)
　　And after all that,
　　however long all that may be,
　　经历过这一切后
　　you'll go somewhere new
　　人还是会重新开始
　　and you'll meet people
　　who make you feel worthwhile again,
　　再遇到值得付出的人
　　and little pieces of your soul
　　will finally come back.
　　然后一点一点地重拾自信
　　And all that fuzzy stuff,
　　而那些模糊的回忆
　　those years of your life that you wasted,
　　那么多年浪费掉的人生
　　that will eventually begin to fade.
　　终究会开始消逝