吉尔莫女孩：生命中的一年

这四集跟前七季的感觉很不一样。不仅是小演员们都长大了，少了当初的纯真，多了些社会同化的结果，而且也是也可能他们十年间没有像以前拍戏那样一直在一起，之间的默契还没来得及建立很多，第四集的时候感觉好了很多，又找到了之前的那种之间很默契很亲近的感觉，特别是rory and lorelai之间。从剧情设置上也是，前七季中虽然也有些不顺，有矛盾冲突，有伤心，但感觉都是在一种温情的氛围下，而且大都是由于双方之间的误解所造成的，内核还是互相关心。而这四集中，感觉主角们更接地气了，前期虽然也都只是小镇生活，但是好像自带阳光，什么事情最终都能处理的很好；这季中，就感觉跟我们很像。rory也会失业，很慌的各种找工作，有个工作要自己，就像抓住救命稻草一样，结果最后还是被嘲笑然后被拒，感觉社会中刚毕业的学生找工作大多都是这样的吧；lorelai是开旅馆的，虽然很小，但是已经想要扩大规模也具有这种能力，Emily有很多钱，christopher也有很多钱，rory自己是耶鲁第一名毕业的，可是这些与logon的家庭相比还是不够，还是不算是门当户对，他俩在一起那么好，十几年过去了，依然觉得跟对方在一起充满有意思的事情，不厌烦，也能互相聊自己的想法，也聊得来，也互相感情很深，互相关心，互相成为对方的习惯；可是。。这又怎样，在现实的生活中可能这些依然不够吧，第七季末logon求婚，rory没有答应，真不知道如果答应了会怎样，后期会不会还是会这样，logon依然要娶某个富商或者权贵的女儿。还好，虽然大环境某些方面很残酷，生活中也会时不时的碰到各种事情，让我们痛苦地想大喊大叫，绝望地只想随手抓住一个救命稻草而不至于被溺死，突然的某一个瞬间觉得周围没人能够理解，也没人支持，一个人好无助；但是，家人可能会冲我们吼，会在某时转身离去，但是最终他们还是会在那里，会陪着我们，会以他们的方式支持我们，让我们能够感受到温暖，并勇敢地走下去。看到luke觉得很亲切，虽然他脾气很暴躁，各种不分场合的发脾气，大吼大叫，而很多时候其实并没有什么事情，不过他总是很细心，关心着身边的人，默默的做着自己觉得自己应该做的事情。

jobless 的人Rory 跟回头重温第七季的人设不一致。按她这个path 及在耶鲁校报editior 的经验，这个年纪应该至少是个有一定影响力的报刊的editor。无房无工作的loser的可能性实在不大。不过虽然美颜都拦不住的老态这母女两还是几时年如一日的任性。所有的男友中最喜欢Logon，一直对反社会规范的Jess 无感。

看过七季和生命中的一年，尝试着说几句

祖母Emily：依附丈夫，传统婚姻，带些贵族味道的传统家庭女性；

妈妈Lorelai：不依附任何人，独立抚养女儿，崇尚独立，在艰辛的生活中自由寻找真爱；

女儿Rory：现代女性，不止崇尚独立，而且寻求实现自我；

也许这就是该剧的主题，反映三代Gilmore女子的不同追求！

祖母Emily曾说是她的婚姻是一条独木舟，需要她和丈夫两个人划，如果剩了她一个，只会在原地打转转；而Lorela像一艘橡皮艇，只需一个人划就能往前走。她感情上对丈夫依赖，经济上也是如此。她还曾向Lorela说，如果她这种婚姻中断了，为了维系生活，只能再嫁一个富人。

妈妈Lorela十六七岁就带着女儿自己打拼，经济独立，感情也是自由的，看似感情走了许多弯路，也是一种探索。事实i证明Luke是真爱，那也是患难之交，俩个人都有自己的店，经济各自独立的，非从属关系，维系他们的乃感情纽带。

女儿Rory无生活之忧，知识女性，便有了更高的追求---实现自我！这是她和Logan互相吸引的最根本的原因！由此可以解释他俩之间发生的所有事情。Rory理想当一名记者，实现她的价值，其间坎坎坷坷，却始终执着。Logan出身豪门，但不愿受家庭的控制，也要实现自我。相同的追求使俩人相知相恋，可惜Logan在求婚这件事上操之过急，让只有二十二岁且满怀抱负的Rory接受不了。

从祖母到妈妈，敢说是一种进步，然而从妈妈到女儿，或许也是一种进步吧？！不同时代的人有不同的追求，不同经历的人有不同的追求，不同层次的人有不同的追求，生活本来就不是一件容易的事情，谁也不能归纳成公式，还是仁者见仁智者见智吧。

附加说一下几个男人：

Logan：富家子弟，纨绔，直言快语，有上进心，奋斗过，但最终屈从了家族，与Rory不是通道人了。

Jess：爱耍酷、爱玩失踪的问题坏男孩，就如狗屎一样吸引混沌少女，尽管他后来当了作家，但他那一套已经对成熟的Rory不起作用了。编剧想告诉少女们这样一个道理：远离狗屎，少走弯路。

Dean：不错的一个男孩，只是太爱面子，不坚定，如果Rory最后认识的是他，或许会幸福的。

Christopher：Rory的生父，对Lorela来讲像一个幽灵，极具破坏力，但纠缠Lorela二十年未得正果，一个在感情方面长不大的大男孩，总是把生活搞得一团糟。

Max：Christopher的再生版，不同的是，Lorela对他具有破坏力。然而，是他自投罗网的，与学生家长谈恋爱，家长会上调情，不顾身份强追，教室里接吻，盲目地求婚，熟不知人家只将他当作替代品，结果可想而知，作为一个人民教师实在不应该。

Luke：Lorela对他没有很强的化学反应，但他能持之以恒，温水煮青蛙，终成正果。Rory爱之如父，Lorela嫁之为夫，就不多说了吧。

不知道已经看了多少遍的经典剧。 Gilmore Girls is my favourite TV series throughout the past decades. I've watched Friends repeatedly, it's easy to watch, funny to laugh, it's like a cup of hot chocolate in the cold winter making you feel safe and warm. Gilmore Girls is even better than that. The conversation is witty, fast, loquacious, satirical, full of pop culture and literature references. The cast is only the most good-looking, ingenious group of actors and actresses there ever is. And most importantly, it's a mother-daughter show happening in a small, appealing town called Stars Hollow in Connecticuit, the show revolves life stories of Lorelai Gilmore and Rory Gilmore (Lorelai Gilmore, the mother named her daughter after herself): their love lives, laughter, sorrows, significant life events, obsession with coffee, good music, books, pop cultures, witty verbal banters, and junk food.

To me, Gilmore Girls is a classic. Amy Sherman-Palladino is my favourite screenwriter other than Aaron Sorkin (the screenwriter for The Social Network, The West Wing and The Newsroom). She has won Primetime Emmy Awards for another creation of hers- The Marvelous Mrs Maisel. She is one of the trailblazers in this industry- an extremely talented producer and screenwriter. She is the sort of role model for a lot of women who seek to pursue a similar career.

The Marvellous Mrs Maisel- also created by Amy Sherman-Palladino

Spoiler alert! 剧透预警！！

The story of Rory Gilmore is charming, inspiring, yet screams elitism. The mother and daughter are not materialistic at all, however, they are from a wealthy, white, middle-class American family. On one point, the whole story is based on Rory's academic studies in Chilton and Yale, life in Stars Hollow, Friday-night dinner in Hartford with her grandparents (who sponsored her private school tuition and college tuition- Christopher, Rory's father sponsored her for Yale as well, she also has a trust fund set up for her by her grandparents), and upcoming career challenges. Rory was initially studying at Stars Hollow High, where she met her first love- Dean Forrester. She later transferred to a private school- Chilton and studied diligently for her life goal- Harvard University. Somehow she ended up going to Yale. She is an intimidatingly smart, driven girl who knows what she wants in life.

One of my favourite features of the show is definitely Rory's love life (I love her academic mind tremendously, I'm also nerdy and enjoy readings wholeheartedly). Dean, Jess, and Logan have shaped her perspectives on relationship. Dean is Rory's first love, he is the perfect boyfriend she could ever ask for. In Rory's own words, quote below:

Rory and Dean ran into each other after all these years again in Dosey's market

It was a mutual love-at-first-sight. They fell in love quickly and became the "it" couple of the town. It was a shame that they went different directions, Rory has set Harvard as her goal since she was three, Dean was just a boy moved from Chicago with his family to Stars Hollow, he doesn't have a specific plan for life after high school. They were each other's sweetheart, but life was too cruel to make Dean realize that Rory belongs to a bigger world, he had to let her go eventually.

Jess is so different from Dean. He is the bad guy that most teenage girls would fall for- good-looking, well-read, despises everything, etc. Rory and Jess have so much in common. He is smart enough to read all the books he can find, they can have conversations about books, music, cult movies, being defiant and reckless from time to time. Rory knows that she can relax and explore different sides of herself when she is with Jess. But Jess was emotionally unavailable for her in the end. He ran away from everything, he was being elusive about senior prom (Rory was really looking forward to attending prom with Jess), Rory had a bright future ahead of her, she moved on after the graduation trip to Europe with Lorelai.

Logan and Rory did not start on the right foot- it was like Elizabeth and Mr Darcy in Pride and Prejudice for a short period of time. But it turns out that they are actually right for each other on every aspect. They went through ups and downs hand in hand.If it weren't for the job on Obama's presidential campaign, they really would end up together.

This is just one great feature of the show, there is so much to watch, and it's definitely a classic among all those TV series in history.I highly recommend this show to anyone who loves classic TV series.

Wish you a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!

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看吉尔莫女孩实在非常容易产生代入感，尤其当你是个背井离乡的小镇姑娘，而且是别人眼中的「别人家的孩子」。

Rory似乎是个美版沈佳宜，从人际单纯但因此颇有负担的家乡来到人人见怪不怪的纽约，挤在自己小小的但是独立的公寓，职业生涯卡在尴尬的瓶颈，复杂恋情见不得光，连对最亲密的妈妈也只能含糊其辞，「我住在我的朋友Didi那儿」。成年人的世界太多无法言说，不管是遇上什么麻烦，还是being attracted to someone in a fucked up way，原来Rory也和生活在城市各个角落的，每一个因为追求更大的世界而逃离家乡，在城市匆匆行人和刺耳喇叭声里面目模糊的普通女孩一样。

Loralei作为妈妈和朋友实在太酷，而作为女儿几乎可以说是一个彻头彻尾的「灾难」。这个女孩在父母面前永远尖酸刻薄神经兮兮，做出各种不符合社交礼仪的事，一辈子都在用最激烈的方式试图逃出美式中产的生活轨迹。她想要的很简单，就是想做个随心所欲的普通人，自己的各种狗屎自己figure out的那种普通人。要选一首她人生的主题曲，也许就是Pulp的《Common People》吧。

然而这个回归短剧最打动我的就是，在父亲葬礼结束后大家围坐在一起讲不出一个「关于爸爸Richard最美好的记忆」故事的Loralei，在去远足那天忘了通行证，站在空无一人的山谷给她妈妈打的那个电话：那年生日她从衣柜里偷了祖母那件带小珠子的绿色上衣，搭上水手裤，觉得没有人比自己更飒，然而在学校里惨遭奚落。她逃课到商场坐在food court大哭，身上连买个pretzel的钱都没有，好不巧碰上从来不上商场的她爸。她爸对她怒吼，质问她为什么不去上学？她只知道大哭。等她哭完，她爸居然手拿一个pretzel站在她面前，一句话也没问，带她上了馆子，看了电影，回家只字不提她逃学的事情。

年少的我有无数个类似的和我爸对质的时刻，几乎每次冷战都以我爸叫我吃饭告终。然而我不记得我是否因为在学校被奚落而发脾气，也不记得是否穿了一件带小珠子的漂亮绿色上衣，更不记得我是不是想吃一个pretzel。唯一一个从我妈那里听来的故事，是两岁的我挨了我妈的打还被推出大门，是我爸把我拎了回来。不禁打了一个冷战。坐在我爸的葬礼上那天，我会是那个讲不出一个好故事的Loralei吗？

最后，Paris依然是我最爱的人物，没有之一。